Monthly Archives: October 2019

Ep. 39: Men vs Women Sex Drive



When we take a look at sex drives, we are taking a look at belief systems. Most often, because of the way sex has been presented to us and is demonstrated in our culture, we have the belief that men have a higher sex drive than women. This belief can be getting in the way of your pleasure, and possibly have you think that something within you is broken. In this episode, I dive into where this belief comes from, how it is affecting your sexuality, and how to overcome this belief and be able to tap into your pleasure.

Listen to this episode and allow yourself to bring some curiosity to these belief systems that you might not have taken a look at when it comes to your sex drive and men’s sex drives. What have you made that mean about your partner? What have you made that mean about you? How is this getting in the way of your pleasure? It is so important to take a pause to look at because these are the things that are going to block you from feeling safe, empowered, and able to access your pleasure.

Topics in this episode

Why things might look a little different, and what to do about it

Saying yes out of guilt

The narrative that’s problematic to pleasure

When you think you “should”, how does that feel in your body?

Women have the capability to experience more pleasure than men

The definition of a “drive” and why sex is not one of them

Spontaneous vs responsive desire

As always it’s been my absolute pleasure having you here on this episode with me today. I hope that you can begin to unpack the idea behind your sex drive, knowing the difference between different types of desires and that it will allow you to tap more deeply into your pleasure.


Calling the Predator Companies out! #1401



Calling Predator companies out on the new things they are doing to collect more info from us and lock us into their platforms increasing dependency. I am personally about sick of it. Plus some bad news for iPhone 5 owners that use the device to keep big brother and all of these predator companies from … Continue reading Calling the Predator Companies out! #1401

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Ep. 38: Clitorial Curiosity



Are you clit-erate? Most of us don’t know what we want, because it’s something we’ve never been educated on. We may know some about the hardware, but by now, having listened to this podcast, you realize there’s so much more that goes into having pleasurable experiences and mindblowing sex. In this episode, I explain the importance of having clitoral curiosity and how that can have such a big impact on getting what you want with your sexuality.

I also want to remind you guys that I’m doing an unbelievable retreat with one of my coaching colleagues Lindsey _______. We are doing a retreat in Palm Springs called the Pleasure and Profit Planning Retreat. We’ll be going in-depth to talking about what it takes to truly create a profitable business, and planning for a super pleasured and profitable 2020. To sign up and find more information go to http://daniellesavory.com/pleasureprofit-retreat.

Topics in this episode:

Defining clitoral curiosity

How important your mindset is to find pleasure in your sexuality

Creating new neural networks for pleasure

Being present and engaged with what’s happening

Having a point of focus

Making an old-time lover new again

Clitoral anatomy

Helpful prompts to create curiosity

I hope specifically that today’s episode helps you become more clitorally curious. You’re wired for extreme pleasure. Now go and allow yourself to find out what lights you up, what turns you on, and what you truly want so you can express this to your partner, or you can just help yourself find more and more pleasure. If you want to take this work even deeper, make sure you sign up for my master class and newsletter at https://daniellesavory.com/freetrainingor even hit me up for some one-on-one coaching.


Ep. 37: How to Know What You Want



Last week I mentioned that I was doing a three-part masterclass: How to know what you want and be able to ask for it. What I’m going to do today is bring to you the first day of the masterclass, the foundation. Sometimes you have to look into what is going into the foundation of before you can even start the inquiry. When we’re beginning with the inquiry, there has to be a level of comfort with your sexuality. So in this episode, I discuss how to start with the foundation of pleasure, and how to determine what you want.

In day two of the masterclass, we covered the investigatoin, and day three was all about the conversation. Each session also comes with a set of resources that I provide to help guide you through to the end goal. To see all three trainings and get access to these resources, go to https://daniellesavory.com/freetraining.

Topics in this episode:

How pleasure impacts so many aspects of our lives

Redefining what it means to be selfish, versus selfless

Why we don’t pursue our pleasure

Be in tune with the tone of noticing

The reward of sex

Regulating your nervous system, and it’s role in pleasure

How to identify things we need to work on


Ep. 36: Mind-blowing Midlife Sex with Dr. Sonia



In this conversation with Dr. Sonia Wright, a board-certified radiologist and mid-life sex coach, we discuss the role of sex coaching, particularly for women in their midlife. She shares how she got interested in being a life coach, and through that coaching, she heard from many of her clients that they were having difficulties in their sex lives. Since there isn’t much sexual education and training in medical school, she found herself doing a lot of independent research, which quickly developed into her pursuing a certificate program to become a certified sex coach.

I had a lot of fun talking with Dr. Sonia about some of the most common concerns for women, the difference in sex coaching for midlife as opposed to other phases of life, and how imperative it is for women to give themselves permission.

Don’t forget, if you want help getting clarity on what it is you want in the bedroom, please go to daniellesavory.com/freetraining to access free training that is available now.

Topics in this episode:

Why she pursued sex coaching, and what inspires her to continue doing it

Benefits of sex coaching for clients

Women in midlife are the sculpture and the sculptor

Peri-menopause and menopause and how it can change your sex life

Helping clients get to a place where they love themselves

The importance of grieving what was lost, and celebrating what’s to come

Dr. Sonia’s answer to: how do you think the world would change if more women were pleasured?

Contact info:

Email: drsonia@themidlifesexcoach.com

Website: https://www.themidlifesexcoach.com/


Anja Würzberg (NDR) – Die Redaktionsleiterin



Anja Würzberg hat viele Jahre im NDR-Fernsehen moderiert und leitet seit 2014 die Redaktion „Religion & Gesellschaft“.

Anja hat mir verraten was „Streetcredibility“ mit ihrem Job zu tun hat, wieso ein persönliches Fachgebiet die Lebensversicherung für jeden guten Journalisten ist
und warum sie ein Volontariat beim Öffentlich-Rechtlichen-Rundfunk für den absoluten KÖNIGSWEG hält.


Ep. 35: Real Change Through Sex Coaching



I love having these episodes and this podcast to teach you concepts, and today I want to give you a glimpse into what it’s like to work with me as your coach. When you listen to the podcast, it may be hard to understand the power of what’s being said. It’s powerful to hear other people’s experiences and the transformations they’ve gone through, and I want to share some of that with you. I also want to explain some key differences between sex therapy and sex coaching. Having a coach is like having a personal champion, and through these client stories, you get to see how focusing on their sex life opened up to personal growth in every aspect of their lives.

Topics in this episode

Value of sex coaching

The feeling of worthiness

What it’s like being powered in your decisions

What’s standing in the way of you getting what you want?

How to be present, one of the hardest things

Training your mind during sex